The blow job post
Mom and kid that are underage you can stop reading right here I am gonna talk about sex if you stay don't complain to me you were warned.
The other day I was reading Bag's blog and she had a wonderful post about her relationship and some how it got into the realm of blow jobs and a lady made a comment about what she thought a blow job was about "I find it offensive that he expects you to regularly engage in an activity that only results in pleasure for him. That's selfish, self-centered, and kind of degrading. " Now mind you there are some men that do make oral sex all about degradation and if THAT is done by consent fine ....... but I think MOST men see it as a sign of trust. Believe it or not putting a penis between someone's TEETH is a pretty trusting act. And while we all laugh and say that all men enjoy it....... trust me some men are pretty fearful about it..... after all they have all grown up by now with the stories of some woman out there biting off penises and throw them in the street to get run over by a car....... don't believe me? Ask around trust me the thought has gone through their head that the woman that is giving them the most pleasure could in an instant cause them the most horrible physical pain they can imagine. See it is not the man RECEIVING the blow job that is in control and if you as a woman don't feel that way then mayhap you need to rethink your own power. Now some women I know, have such issues with sex and power that they cannot get much pleasure from most sexual acts..... there are men out there with the same problems..... my heart goes out to you really it does. My life is better for the sexuality that has been a part of it every since I was old enough to grasp that I was wanted in that way. I feel no shame it the subtle play between men and women or women and women or men and men...... tho some I find more pleasurable then others. Love is a treasure....... it allows you to trust someone to do to you what you may not be so trusting with others...... it allows you the space to need and want we should not assign a neg. value to those wants without proof of unhealthy and evil. A blow job for the most part is a gift......one that goes both ways it is a gift of pleasure to the one receiving and a gift of trust to the person giving the blow job..... both gifts can be wonderful, sought after, and wanted.
The other day I was reading Bag's blog and she had a wonderful post about her relationship and some how it got into the realm of blow jobs and a lady made a comment about what she thought a blow job was about "I find it offensive that he expects you to regularly engage in an activity that only results in pleasure for him. That's selfish, self-centered, and kind of degrading. " Now mind you there are some men that do make oral sex all about degradation and if THAT is done by consent fine ....... but I think MOST men see it as a sign of trust. Believe it or not putting a penis between someone's TEETH is a pretty trusting act. And while we all laugh and say that all men enjoy it....... trust me some men are pretty fearful about it..... after all they have all grown up by now with the stories of some woman out there biting off penises and throw them in the street to get run over by a car....... don't believe me? Ask around trust me the thought has gone through their head that the woman that is giving them the most pleasure could in an instant cause them the most horrible physical pain they can imagine. See it is not the man RECEIVING the blow job that is in control and if you as a woman don't feel that way then mayhap you need to rethink your own power. Now some women I know, have such issues with sex and power that they cannot get much pleasure from most sexual acts..... there are men out there with the same problems..... my heart goes out to you really it does. My life is better for the sexuality that has been a part of it every since I was old enough to grasp that I was wanted in that way. I feel no shame it the subtle play between men and women or women and women or men and men...... tho some I find more pleasurable then others. Love is a treasure....... it allows you to trust someone to do to you what you may not be so trusting with others...... it allows you the space to need and want we should not assign a neg. value to those wants without proof of unhealthy and evil. A blow job for the most part is a gift......one that goes both ways it is a gift of pleasure to the one receiving and a gift of trust to the person giving the blow job..... both gifts can be wonderful, sought after, and wanted.
posted by achromic at 1:15 PM
6 Comments:
I've actually never thought of the teeth/power thing before. Wow. That's an awesome way of looking at it.
Bravo! What a great posting. I'm always surprised at how people perceive blowjobs. As a gay man, I've always seen it as an act that both partners enjoy. Certainly not one where the receiver was in control.
I believe as adults we owe it to ourselves to be better educated about sex. The more I know the better I can be as a partner.
My friend, I'm so glad to see you posting again.
I believe in consenting adults doing what pleases both of them.
As for what they choose to do, it's none of my business.
The operative words are consenting and adults.
Indeed granny I would NEVER EVER condone the act of aggression that leaves a partner feeling volited and harmed nor would I EVER condone the harming of a child. Sex play is for adults period. Indeed consent and adulthood is what makes sex sex.... anything that DOESN'T include those two words is a volinet horrendous act of which I belive the death pently SHOULD apply.
Wow! A sex post, in one of the least likely locations I was expecting, ha ha!!!
I'm w/Granny on the consenting adults thang...
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